What was the ideal man like?

The ideal man doesn't drink himself to the ground, doesn't smoke in the apartment, gives his wife respect. He has a plot of land and a car. But it's okay if he doesn't. He flirts, but he's loyal. He can be tall and blonde, but he can also be short and brunette. He doesn't do housework, but he works multiple shifts. He doesn't cry, he doesn't get emotional, because the ideal man is macho. This is how you could describe the ideal man of the Kádár era. The ideal man is an understanding, sensitive, caring father. He admits that he has feelings, helps with housework, supports the woman in self-realization. He's thin, athletic. It's good if he has a competitive profession, but he can also have an artistic soul. This is how you could describe the man that women most desire today.